Dear Angela
I and my new boyfriend have been dating for three months now. But I noticed that I cannot just stand his kisses even though I love being kissed. But I must give it to him as he is great between the sheets.
No doubt we have a great relationship and the sex is great as well but it is just his kisses that put me off.
He uses a lot of saliva, he is way too rough and this puts me off. I have started avoiding his kisses as I really don’t know how to tell him that I don’t like the way he kisses me and I think he has started noticing it. How do I tell him without been offensive, please I need your advice.
Sofia
Dear Sofia
There is a saying that ‘one man’s meat is another man’s poison’ That means what maybe a put off to one person might be a turn on for another.
Since the way he kisses you puts you off, it is advisable to talk to your partner about it. Calmly and lovingly discuss the matter with your partner. Tell him precisely what you don’t like about the way he kisses you, then both of you can take it up from there. You can teach him how you want him to kiss you.
Also, there are lots of videos on kissing you can both watch together and learn from as well on YouTube.
I hope this helps.
All the best!
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