Categories: Relationship

Nigerian Woman Advises Against Dating Younger Men (See Why)

A Nigerian woman identified as Joke has advised against dating younger men.

 

The Lekki-based babe in a chat with Silverbird recounted her past relationship with a man she is older than known as Bayo.

She said he was enthusiastic and had so much vigour about life but the downside to it was that he did not see the need to have a logical approach to problem-solving.

According to Joke, there was a time things were not going the way her ex wanted and he resorted to doing drugs instead of trying to find a practicable solution.

She wrote; Younger men have so much vigor towards life but this can go sideways. Bayo was enthusiastic about life but at some point his life wasn’t going as planned and he resorted to drugs instead of trying to fix his problems heads on.

Younger men try to solve most of their problems with drugs and weed. I am not about that life please. Older men are better!”

In other news, a Nigerian man simply known as Frank has been left with a broken heart and deep fear for women after what his girlfriend did to him.

He revealed that he found out the girl he’s been dating for four years married another man while they were still in a relationship.

The 34-year-old man discovered that it was in the second year of the relationship that she tied the knot with another man.

According to Frank, he was clueless about everything that happened but he noticed that things changed within that period as she became busy all of a sudden.

He said they stopped going on dates and she moved to another place that was far from his house so he could not visit her.

However, she was still coming to visit him on Fridays and on Sunday morning she leaves for church service.

Frank eventually found out she had been married for two years and when he confronted her, she explained that he was not talking about marriage so she had to go for a man who was ready.

She told him that she did not want to break up with him so she kept her marriage a secret because she still wanted them to be dating.

Frank said, Men are sc^m but women are sc^mmer. I once dated a lady for 4 years not knowing she got married to another guy 2 years into our relationship. I didn’t know because nothing really changed, except that we stopped going on dates because she forms busy all the time.

Another thing that I noticed was that she moved to a new place that was very far from me, I stopped visiting her while she visits me instead.

She’d come to my place on Fridays and leave for church on Sunday mornings. When I found out that she was married 2 years into our relationship, I confronted her.

She said she had to because I wasn’t talking about marriage, and she couldn’t tell or break up with me because she still wants us to be together. I’m finding it hard to settle down now because I’ve been scared of women since then. I’m traumatized! Fear women!

 

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