Being in your 30s can be tricky since you’re not considered that young but you’re not middle-aged either. So finding a perfect style can be challenging, especially if you’re not fashion-oriented. A lot of men buy their clothes based on what they see on the streets which can sometimes lead to a fashion mistake they’d rather avoid. Here are some most common style mistakes you should steer away from once you hit your thirties:
Band tees
Being obsessed with your favourite band is fine if you’re a teenager or a young adult, but once you hit a certain age, spending all your energy on a group can seem a bit sad. Same goes for wearing band tees. Showing love and support to your fave musicians is done through legally buying their music and attending their gigs, not through wearing clothes. Also, wearing a band tee without actually knowing the band is a fashion faux pas you shouldn’t make. Just because a T-shirt looks good on you, it doesn’t mean you should automatically wear it. It’s even worse when you do it in your 30s because that’s the age you should definitely know better than to wear a tee with a band you’ve never heard of.
Not acting your age
Look, some men can pull certain things off, but those men are usually David Bowie or Prince, and you’re definitely neither. Of course, just because you’re thirty-something, doesn’t mean you should be all serious, but there are certain things you shouldn’t wear no matter how appealing it might seem. Gucci belts look good on Gen-Z SoundCloud rappers, and an accomplished man in his 30s will look immature and phony. There’s nothing more off-putting than a man who thinks he’s younger than he is. Trying to be somewhat down with the kids is okay if your children are teenagers, but it’s important to remember that you’re an adult now. You have responsibilities. Your style should definitely get more refined as you get older. You don’t need to dress like a banker or a lawyer, but transitioning to a more sophisticated style is always welcome.
Wearing the wrong underwear
Buying the proper underwear can seem like a puzzle especially if you’ve relied on your mother or exes to do it for you. First, it’s important to know what fits you. Some men’s underwear is better suited for certain body types, clothes and ages. Mid-rise briefs work better with jeans, while high-rise briefs are great for covering tummy fat and love handles. Boxers work great for every day and casual outdoor activities. Learn about your body type and try different types before you find those that work for you. Always make sure they’re well-fitting so you’ll never feel uncomfortable, especially when you’re in public. Also, wearing an undershirt as a T-shirt is never a good idea, unless you’re in an MTV reality show back in 2004. Be sure to regularly wash and change your underwear, and don’t use detergents that are too harsh.
Wearing oversized clothes
Oversized stuff used to look good on rappers back in the day. If you’re a man approaching your 40s, oversized shirts and pants are something you should avoid. Clothes that are too big don’t look good on anyone, not even Brad Pitt. In case you’re overweight, you can wear bigger clothes, but it’s always advisable to try losing weight and find clothes that are more fitting. Also, wearing big jackets and trousers won’t make you any warmer during the winter, but they’ll definitely make you look awkward, especially if your sleeves are too long. Next time you go shopping, pay attention to the cuts and sizes, and if you find this complicated, ask someone to help you.
In conclusion, your style should definitely reflect your personality but as a man in your 30s, you should know that some personal traits shouldn’t be on full display for everyone to see. Being into video games is cool, but try aiming for timeless and classical styles instead of chasing fads.
